March 13, Wednesday ~ Giving Up Destructive Speech

DAY 25: Giving Up Destructive Speech

• James 3:1-12

• Matthew 15:1-11

• Psalm 8:1-9

Today, we are giving up destructive language. Ressler focuses his writing on using the Lord’s name in vain and using profanity, both worthy of lengthy consideration. But I think destructive language includes all those ways in which we may engage people in less than grace-filled manners. Gossip is a big one, but so is being inattentive to the specific situation of the person you are with. That can lead to less-than-sensitive language, which can harm someone’s spirit. We are not called to treat or talk to someone in a manner that leaves them in an emotional rubble. Be gentle. Be cautious. Listen deeply.

But let’s take a moment to examine what happens psychologically when someone swears. There must be some benefits to the person doing the swearing, or it wouldn’t have been done so often for so long. Research indicates that swearing, or taboo language as it is also called, has been around for about 1000 years. Studies show that “Swear words can achieve a number of outcomes, as when used positively for joking or storytelling, stress management, fitting in with the crowd, or as a substitute for physical aggression.” There is quite a bit of information on how swearing can actually reduce pain.

Even though all this scientific input tells us that swearing isn’t all that bad, Christians are called to a different standard. Let’s not get this confused with a higher standard, or we can easily turn into the language police instead of the hands and feet of Christ to a hurting world in need of love, mercy, and grace. Scripture calls us to engage in clear, well-articulated conversations based on kindness, compassion, and unconditional love.

A group of my friends are doing a “sugar cleanse” for Lent. They are discovering the impact sugar has on their personalities and controlling their emotions. Maybe it is time to do a “word cleanse.” Speak Psalm 8 out loud. Let it resonate deep inside you and remind you to choose your words carefully. If you have been using taboo words to deflect anger and pain, ask God to show you other ways to deal with those issues. Let praise be foremost on your lips. “O Lord, open our lips, and our mouths shall declare your praise.” (Psalm 51:15)

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